Why an Engagement Session is So Important (And Why I Include One in My Wedding Packages)

Melissa Koss
Sep 1
2 min read

If you’ve been scrolling through wedding photography packages, you’ve probably noticed that many photographers offer engagement sessions — sometimes as an add-on and sometimes included. So why does it matter? And why do I include a complimentary engagement session in my 8 and 10-hour wedding packages?

(locations from left to right: White Rock Lake in Dallas, The Kimbell Art Museum in Weatherford, Weatherford Lake in Weatherford)

Here’s everything you need to know.

1. It Helps You Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera

Most couples tell me they feel a little nervous about being photographed — especially if they’ve never done professional photos before. Your engagement session is like a warm-up! You’ll get to experience how I direct, pose, and capture candid moments, so by the time your wedding day arrives, the nerves are gone and you feel confident.

2. We Build Trust and Connection During the Engagement Session

Engagement sessions give us a chance to hang out in a relaxed setting, with no timeline pressures or big crowds. By the time I show up on your wedding day, I’m not just another vendor — I’m someone you know and trust, which makes your photos that much more genuine.

3. You’ll Have Beautiful Photos for Save-the-Dates and More

From save-the-dates to wedding websites to guest books, your engagement photos aren’t just practice — they’re memories you’ll actually use and cherish. Plus, it’s a chance to showcase your personalities in a setting that’s meaningful to you (think your favorite park, coffee shop, or even downtown Dallas).

4. It Eases the Timeline on Wedding Day

Since you’ll already know how I work, we can move quickly and naturally into portraits on the wedding day. You’ll spend less time worrying about what to do with your hands and more time enjoying each other and celebrating with loved ones.

Why I Include It in My 8 and 10-Hour Packages

I believe every couple deserves to feel comfortable and confident before their wedding day. That’s why my 8 and 10-hour wedding photography packages include a complimentary engagement session. It’s not just about extra photos — it’s about making sure your wedding day experience is smooth, stress-free, and authentic to you.

When you look back at your photos, I want you to see more than just beautiful images — I want you to remember how natural and effortless the experience felt.

✨ An engagement session is one of the best investments you can make in your photography experience. It’s fun, it’s meaningful, and it sets the tone for your wedding day in the best way possible.